Where's Your Common Sense

Few days back then, me & some friends were discussing the recent sagas that been happening around us.

We were discussing how idiotic and obviously far-fetched some of the accusations are.

Life is stressful. Being an adult is stressful. Living with people is stressful. It's just about anything that we'll be facing each and everyday of life will going to add a bit of stress.

Lately, my stress levels have been through the roof. Tensions have been high; house drama and MCO "Stay At Home" and medical issues have complied until some days I just want to hide under the covers and not getting out of bed until next year. I don't enjoy the stress of reminding someone to throw the rubbish into the dump, sanitize every time you come home, turn off the fucking air-cond & light, not to slam the damn door, low down the volume and etc.

It was too much. Why do I think there's no sense of common sense on certain person... 

One of my friend actually replied me; 
"You're actually making a mistake thinking bout common sense actually important for them, they don't even care."

That actually shut me off quite well.

There is no need to argue with somebody who act like that. Tomorrow, they can tell you how dirty the house is and say you never done the house chores even when I pointed out the dirt was the fur of some animal they own or any other irrefutable evidence, they don't give a shit bout it.

They just want to provoke a reaction, they want to say whatever they can, because they can.

You can only reason those people who have basic common sense and want to see common sense.

It is MCO right now in M'sia; MCO 3.0, which mean I have to face all these hooman everyday 24/7 and it's been 1 year plus dealing with all these. I have remained cool, calm and in control. I could say that I've try my best to entertained all these people, teaching them about common sense in a good way, without any sarcasm. I could say that, but sometimes I just gotta act like a kid.

Treating them the same way they did cause they just really don't care. It's hard to response to a stressful situation. You just gotta slam back the door real hard on a freaking 4.00 A.M. Ignore the trash once in awhile and not picking up the poop my hamster had left on their trails. I'm acting  like a little child who can't control herself and lets off pressure by getting louder and louder.

Regardless of how I trying to be rational and harmony, it's kind some-kind of hard. Disappointment caused you act like a saint, but they just don't care and sticking up their nose picking up nonsense argument. 

Teaching people about common sense is less like the middle of High School Musical where Vanessa dancing under the rain holding hand with Zac and more like the movie where you know the house is haunted and still entering it with a Hello.

I thought of educating them to have common sense is the only way feel like winning in this stressful situation. I thought of finding the right bug and easily get rids of it  but it seems so stupid. It will only get myself into more anger and headache cause common sense doesn't really applies to all this pussies.

There's only 1 way.

I just have to be happy. HAPPY AND IGNORE.

All they want is to make me stress. If I just ignore it, they also suak-suak lor.

If I think about it, is any of this affecting me in any real way? I may gotten yelled back or been said as bossy, if I keep on picking up on them or telling them about common sense. I have good relation with some of them, I believe they couldn't harm me as well. HAHA!

I have lovely people all around me & my hammies as well. Everyday I look at them and cannot believe I actually had gotten myself 5 of them, and they are still alive! Easy work with good payment.

I have more than enough money to spend. Haven't living my dream house or driving my dream car yet! But still driving myself a Honda is more than enough. I'm gratitude and blessed and I will continue to be more successful. 

In 2021, I hope people learn to respect each other and have some common sense. It's not only youngster but old people as well. Common sense is quite important as it shown how your family educate you and your level of manners. Being considerate sometime. 

Saying sorry when you accidentally bump on someone, holding door for people sometimes, be respectful to the immegrant that work at our country as well, all this little act doesn't hurt you but show how saint you are.  

I can't please everyone as well. In fact, the more successful/popular you are, the more people dislike you because other do not feel you are deserving of the success. Sometimes, I too, have some lack of common sense but trying my best as well. Hoping other trying their best to change as well!

Goodnight Peeps <3